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Subject:   Re: unsure...
Name:   Klyn
Date Posted:   Jun 7, 07 - 6:19 AM
IP Address:   72.205.215.32
Email:   brianminton@cox.net
Message:   Hi Braxton, I'm Klyn.

If you are here and have one inkling of an idea that you are abused, you are on the right track. Most of us are wired to be able to detect when something happens that we disagree with, do not like or make us uncomfortable and sad. Some is morally taught and the other is instinct. Especially since you already know what abuse is...you KNOW....whether you want to recognize it or not is up to you. We as humans tend to go with what is familiar and therefore continue cycles. Abuse tends to run that way. I, myself spent many times in women abuse shelters and running from relative to relative. I then as an adult found relationships that were bad for me, negative in all ways and was beat up daily physically, emotionally and spiritually.

The good thing is when you become an adult you can make choices you couldn't make as a child...you can choose to recognize what makes you feel bad and know if you want that in your life or not. I think the first step is finding yourself....find out who you are before you can committ to someone else. You need to love yourself and recognize what makes you happy....not rely on someone else to give it to you or make it happen. A poor self image is an easy target and a big magnent to predators searching and if you feel, "disposable", you will be.

Start talking to friends or family you trust, Someone at church to give you direction. Talk to your insurance company and find out what kind of counseling they will cover........talk to someone.

What are you willing to lose? Material things surely are not worth yourself. Given very little detail on your situation, I hope this helps....and I wish you the best of luck. Come back any time.....email me anytime.

God Bless.

Klyn
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Re: unsure... by BlushingAngel · Jun 7, 07 - 6:51 AM
Re: unsure... by IceDream · Jun 7, 07 - 8:59 AM
Re: unsure... by Marcia Duning · Jun 8, 07 - 4:17 AM


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